Homecoming: Five Conversations Before They Walk Out the Door

 Homecoming brings football, dresses, dinners, pictures, dances, parties and a little more independence.

It also gives parents a natural opportunity for prevention.

You don't need a 45-minute lecture before your teenager leaves. Five short conversations can accomplish much more.

Where are you going?

Know the actual plan, including what happens after the dance.

Who will be there?

If they're gathering at someone's home, communicate with the parent hosting.

Who's driving?

Don't wait until midnight to discover the transportation plan changed.

What's our rule about alcohol and drugs?

Say it clearly. Teenagers shouldn't have to guess what their parents expect.

What happens if you need me?

Give them an exit.

“If you ever feel unsafe, call me. I will come get you.”

That doesn't mean there won't be a conversation later. It means the first priority is getting your child safely home.

Our local data continues to show strong parental disapproval of youth substance use.

That's an important protective factor.

Teenagers may be gaining independence, but parents haven't stopped mattering.

Homecoming is a great time to remind yourself of that.

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