Got Drugs? Now What! – Investing in “What Works” at Home
When a Parent Discovers Drugs or Alcohol Use: Few moments are as panic-inducing for a parent as finding a vape pen in your teen’s backpack or smelling marijuana on their hoodie. Your mind races: Is my child an addict now? How do I stop this? This session title, “Got Drugs? Now What!”, encapsulates that feeling of what on earth do I do next? The first step is: take a deep breath. Knee-jerk reactions like screaming, punishing harshly on the spot, or flushing things down the toilet while lecturing may feel natural but often backfire. Instead, try to approach the situation calmly and strategically . Evidence-based prevention and intervention means handling it in a way that’s more likely to actually solve the problem rather than just expressing our anger. So, say you find a baggie of pills or your child comes home clearly intoxicated – as hard as it is, lead with concern and curiosity, not just anger. You might say, “I found this. I’m not happy about it, but more than that I’m worr...